A couple of weeks back, a friend of mine asked me if I wanted to go see the world-premiere of Rebel with a Clause at the Main Cinema downtown. I’d never heard of this but my friend is a writer, super funny and super curious and super intelligent so without so much as even “bing-ing” it, I bought ticket online and that Sunday, off we went.
Explaining it doesn’t even begin to do it justice, so here is the trailer:
It was SO funny, mostly because the idea of her quest is funny and a lot of the folks in the clips were hilarious but also because the audience was also hysterical. The movie is split up into chapters. For example, The Comma was a bunch of clips about comma questions. In fact, when “Commas” came up on the screen, there was a huge reaction/laugh/groan from the audience. Clearly grammar and usage hit a spot for many people and the audience obviously knew what those hot spots are! This happened several times.
I have never been what you would call a stickler for grammar but for most of my adult life I’ve lamented about the sad state of English. Even having studied Shakespeare and Chaucer and knowing that English has evolved, I stood my ground. And then I had one of those life-changing reads. The Mother Tongue: English and How It Got That Way by Bill Bryson (what a great title too). He was so effective in mapping out the path of our language that by the final page, I was completely converted. The grammar that we were taught in school really is just arbitrary made-up rules and communicating is what’s important, not whether we’re splitting infinitives or not. (And I’m really hawking his book – interesting and funny.)
This doesn’t mean that I have thrown grammar to the wind. I still like to speak well and I certainly appreciate it when someone uses the subjunctive correctly. I also still cringe when people mis-use reflexive pronouns, which seems to be more often than not these days. But overall, I’m trying to let all that go.
Ellen Jovin clearly comes down on the side of not holding people’s feet to the fire over their use of grammar even though she really knows her topic. (This is not a spoiler alert by the way.) Turns out that in addition to setting up her Grammar Table, eventually, in all 50 states, she also wrote a book about the experience. I have it on hold at the library.
So…. (VS acknowledges she is using the ellipses incorrectly) I’m highly recommending both Mother Tongue and Rebel with a Clause. And, if you’re here in the Twin Cities, the movie will be showing again at The Main Cinema on September 21 and September 24. Highly recommended!!
Do you remember learning grammar in school? Any grammar rule/s that you feel warmly about?



