For a variety of reasons I was contemplating the tradition of Hobo Days at South Dakota State University. It has been going on since 1912, apparently, and involves festivities in conjunction with Homecoming. There are parades and contests, such as the six month competitions for beard growing (for the men) and leg-hair growing (for the women), a parade featuring a 1912 Ford, and people dressed up like Hobos (mainly the men) and “Hippie Chicks” (mainly the women). The women used to dress up like “Indian Maidens”. That was eventually deemed offensive, so the women were recast as Hippies. I wonder how former Hippie women feel about it?
I believe that university staff look on the tradition with mixed feelings. It certainly promotes school spirit and cohesiveness. It is also a time of heavy drinking and all the problems that brings, and also glorifies homelessness.
I think I am pretty anti-tradition when it comes to festivities like Hobo Days, but I must admit changes to my comforting and familiar Lutheran liturgy are upsetting. Change is hard. Finding new traditions isn’t easy.
What traditions do you cling to? What traditions would you like to see end? What new traditions would you like to see?
Daughter has been on our phone plan until now, and is taking a step toward independence and is getting her own phone plan. It has been four years since we upgraded our phones. We are helping her financially with the transition. After reviving from the sticker shock of how much a new iPhone costs, I thought about my own experiences in elementary school getting trained by Ma Bell in proper phone use.
Does anyone else remember phone company reps coming to school and teaching phone etiquette and how to operate rotary phones? I remember it happened in about Grade 3. The phones were tan and were desk models. They even brought in a slimline phone. I was green with envy. I thought the technology was cool, since the only phone we had hung on the kitchen wall. I can’t imagine such training in the schools these days.
How do you learn how to use new technology? How did you learn to use phones and computers? Where do you think this technology is going?
Our former fearless leader was almost a prophet. Missed it by that much.
That one little a.
I sent this to Dale. He answered “I take no pride in being able to predict the Sherpa. All it took was cynicism + imagination. I’d feel better if I had prophesied something hopeful.
Unfortunately those who expect the worst are frequently right!”
We will keep mum about Dale’s own little Russian influences.
Heard a prophesy lately? Have one to make?
Friday during Sherrilee’s “Destructo Kitty” post, I referenced one of those scroll-through-25-pictures articles, which wasn’t a very grown-up thing to do – who (besides a retired person) has time for that? The list (of truths to accept if you’re a real adult) was clearly compiled by a much younger person, but I did find some of the “truths” that resonated with me.
I also found one or two that made me snort tea. Here’s the link if you want to read the commentary, but the “truths” are listed below.
You’ll know you’re a real adult when you accept these 25 truths:
- Life’s tough. Get a helmet.
- If you want to play hard, you really do have to work hard.
- If you mess up, it’s your responsibility to fix it.
- Your driver’s license photo will never, ever be flattering.
- Sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt.
- You have control over your life.
- Making compromises is a good thing. Compromising yourself is NOT.
- Success is just about perception.
- Some people are just big jerks.
- School doesn’t come close to teaching you everything you need to know.
- Love isn’t just a feeling, it’s a choice you make.
- You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
- Money won’t solve your problems.
- You are not the center of the universe.
- Things are rarely as cool as they seem.
- You can’t make everybody happy.
- Sometimes you have to put yourself first.
- Jealousy is a huge waste of time.
- Change is good. Sometimes.
- You’re not getting any younger.
- Sometimes you just don’t have the answers.
- It’s never too late to change.
- Even if you have “more important” things to do, you NEED to get a good night’s sleep.
- You can’t have it all.
- The only time you should look back is to see just how far you’ve come.
Which one (or two, or more) of the above resonates with you?
Since we left on vacation on Wednesday, I have replied to about 30 emails from the regulatory board of which I am the chairperson. Husband has had phone calls and emails from tribal court and from the addiction treatment center on the reservation where he works. Daughter is somewhat annoyed with us. I can’t blame her. Really, vacation should be more like this:
I do not plan to work after I retire. I need to keep telling myself this so that I don’t work after I retire. I need to spend retirement having photo ops with enormous, two-legged garlic bulbs.
If you are retired, is retirement what you imagined? If you are not retired, what do you imagine retirement will be like?
Husband looked at me with bleary eyes the other day as we were finishing yet one more garden chore and said “We are getting too old for a garden this big. We can never have a garden bigger than this one”.
I don’t know when it happened, but the days are gone when we could get all our garden work done in a couple of weekends and still look after our children and cats and dogs and keep up the house inside. It took at least six weekends this year to get everything done. We just can’t work from dawn to dusk like we used to.
“Let’s get all the pea and rabbit fencing up today, and then focus on the strawberry netting tomorrow”. “I think we can get the soaker hoses down Sunday after church. We’ll worry about putting up the bean poles until next weekend”. We never really had to pace ourselves like this, and it came on so suddenly!
I love our garden, and it is coming on nicely, and I don’t want to downsize. Maybe going to the gym in the winter will help next year come summer. I am not used to pacing myself.
When have you bitten off more than you could chew. How do you pace yourself for life these days?
On July 1, my agency, along with all the other State-run Human Service Centers and the State Hospital are switching to a new electronic record system. It is totally different than our current system, which we have had for about 15 years. There is anxiety and uncertainty leading up to the start date, especially since many aspects of the system are still being developed. It will be a good change and will reduce some paperwork demands.
Change is hard, though, especially for people who pride themselves on doing things correctly the first time. We have to accept we will do things wrong for a while until we master the system. Some of my colleagues are panicking. Some are just resigned to the inevitable chaos. I just want it to start so we can get a new normal.
What changes are hard for you? What have been some big changes in your life?