YA is my hero.
Backstory. Two years ago, when we had the bathroom done, when it was time for our contractor to plaster in a few places, I convinced him to plaster a few spots in the upstairs hallway and the steps. YA and I agreed on the new color we wanted and then did… nothing. I look at this every day and hate it but not enough to actually do anything about it. We talk about it every couple of months, but no changes. And I certainly am not going to nag her about it when I’m not willing to put on my painting clothes. I’ve even thought about hiring a painter.
Last week she decided she was ready. We went to Home Depot and got a gallon of paint and a paintbrush and a roller and then she got to it. Did a little sanding, wiped down all the walls, tape and more tape and even more tape. She used up all the paint and sent me back to HD to get more. No problem. She asked me once if I wanted to paint. I declined.
We talked about it further; while she is working on this project, I’ve stepped up in other areas. Bringing up her laundry, doing all the dishes she leaves in the sink, not asking her to take out the recycling/trash. It’s a good allocation of chores, because I suck at painting. I’m too impatient and I’m genetically unable to paint without making a mess. YA has painted the whole hallway and halfway down the steps with her first gallon of paint. There is NO paint on the floor anywhere. And there has been NO paint on YA or her clothing. I’m not sure how she manages this. (I did a couple of cards using a stencil the day she was painting and I got blue ink on every single one of my finger tips.)
She says she is going to finish tomorrow since she has the day off. How did I get so lucky?
How do you allocate chores/work?
Spouse chooses what she will do. I get the rest. So far, that’s been fine. She has laundry and financial stuff, I cook and move snow. I shovel the cat boxes at night, she has added a scoop out in the morning. So, the cats are happy, the clothes are clean, and we eat a variety of stuff across the main food groups.
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