Today is YA’s birthday. A whooping 29 years old today!!
YA is one of those folks who likes a little fuss but doesn’t like to admit they want a fuss. This is hard for me because #1: I love making a fuss and #2: when you don’t want to admit to wanting fuss, then you don’t admit to what you actually want. I have to figure what she MIGHT like and not go beyond that!
The first thing we have is a banner that says “Happy Birthday” that I made a few years ago; I hang it up across the arch between the dining room and living room. I added two big balloons, one on each end of the arch. A “2” and a “9”. (YA’s dog Guinevere is twenty years younger than YA so we will keep the “9” for the end of the month!). That’s it for décor.
Goodies are harder. Most of the time YA is not a cookies/cake/cupcake kind of person. Most of the time. But you can’t count on her birthday being a day that she’s in the mood. She does however like brownies most of the time – as long as they don’t have frosting… so I can make those. I have two big candles (again a “2” and “9”). I did get a can of cream cheese frosting so I can write “Happy Birthday” on the brownies. That will be OK with her.
For a gift, she’s saving up for a new laptop so there is a giftcard for her. Not exactly original but it’s what she really wants. She is fairly particular about what she wears, so I would never buy her clothing. I can never guess what she might like to read so no books. Between us we got four jigsaw puzzles for the holidays so that’s out. Giftcard it will be.
All this fuss will be set up during the day while YA is at work so she’ll come home to the fun. Hopefully I will have gotten the fuss to non-fuss ration correct!
What kind of birthday fuss to you like?



